Yeah man that sucks. On a bad day it can take me over an hour to get to BG from Dedham. On a good day maybe 20 minutes. It could be worse though...you could be IN Rhode Island where I'm fairly certain there's only 2 gaming stores in the entire state and none of them provide playing space for 40k or anything like that (the hobby store in Newport seems large enough but I don't believe they have game space).
Based on your website you play 40k. Do you play anything else besides that? I know it isn't the same but you could try playing some of these games online like how Chess players do play by mail. I've seen that done for a game I play, War at Sea, and it tends to work.
You could also plan to come to BG for some of the larger events. The big Mega Battle every January is a huge draw and could be a lot of fun for you. Would coming to BG every couple months be in the cards? There's a lot of 40kers here and I'm sure you could get some games in if you came on the weekends.